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Speed Dating Validates the Theory of Love at First Sight

Friday, February 29th, 2008

By Terry Ross Speed dating is going from strength to strength as it becomes a popular way of finding a partner, making friends and having fun. The number of successful relationships, whirl wind romances and fairytale weddings are adding credance to the theory of ‘love at first sight’ and speed dating is proving to be the answer to many peoples dreams. If you have not come across speed dating before, in short, it is a formulized way of dating, with the general idea being that a group of people are bought together, half are seated in individual areas (either the men or the women) and then potential partners are rotated, from room to room, with less than ten minutes to meet each new person. Those who support speed dating say it is an interesting and quick way of finding the perfect partner with their first impressions usually being correct. Those who hate having to sit through endless boring evenings with people with who you have nothing in common find speed dating to be an excellent way of meeting new people, gaining confidence and learning how to attract and seduce potential partners from the moment they step into the room. At the end of each event the speed daters provide the organizers with a list of participants who they would like to be provided with their details. Contact details cannot be exchanged during the initial meeting between the speed daters which avoids undue pressure on individuals and totally eliminates the possible embarrassment of having to tell someone they arent for you. Studies have concluded that first impressions are usually correct and that the speed dating concept, which offers just a few minutes for participants to make a decision, is well grounded. Others condemn speed dating, considering it to be more in keeping with the animal world. Whatever the scientific opinions, it has to be said that speed dating is gaining popularity and taking many major cities by storm. It certainly has many advantages over other dating methods especially for those who lack confidence, have limited time, hate long dull evenings, like to meet lots of new people or just want to find that perfect match as quickly as possible. If you are looking for a partner just give speed dating a go, as with on line dating, at worst youll have an entertaining evening and at best you could find the answer to your dreams. Visit my website 1st-4-relationships for more dating advice Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Terry_Ross http://EzineArticles.com/?Speed-Dating-Validates-the-Theory-of-Love-at-First-Sight&id=291152 overdose on ativan ambien mail order drug interaction lorazepam zolpidem tartrate controlled drug

Themed Marriage Proposals - Medieval

Friday, February 29th, 2008

By Barry Davis Does your girlfriend love the renaissance fair? Does she dream about the fairy tales of her knight in shining armor? Medieval proposals can be some of the most fun things to do! And if she loves medieval times, then you are going to score huge points with her. Have you ever been to the renaissance fair? There are a number of them around the United States. Every person who goes there is encouraged to wear costumes or dress in garb from that time period. This is a perfect place to propose to her. Tell her that you want to go and get your tickets. Then spend some time with her picking out costumes for the both of you to wear. Talk about how great of a day it is going to be with the two of you going there and feeling like you are in another time period. Compliment her on her costume a few times and keep telling her that you cannot wait to see her in it at the fair. You really want to get her excited about going. Call the fair ahead of time and let them know you are planning to do a medieval marriage proposal. Ask them if there is anything that they do for proposals, or if there is something you can work into one of their shows. There are plenty of things at these fairs where they ask for participants from the audience, so this might be a great opportunity for you to ask her to marry you. If they do not offer anything like this, then try to get to the fair one day before the both of you go. Walk around for an hour and see what the scenery is like, where the crowds form, if there are any secluded places, etc. This way when you get there, you will know exactly where you want to go to propose to her. She will finally have her knight in shining armor! Another great idea is to call up Medieval Times. They are a company that performs shows around the United States and have a number of locations. It is a fun and entertaining event for everyone to enjoy. The seating is arena style and they serve food before the event begins. The food comes out on medieval plates with goblets to drink from. You get a very medieval feeling during the entire meal as the wenches come around to wait on you. After dinner, the event begins and the knights come out into the arena! A night of jousting, sword battles, ground combat, and even romance follows for the show. Ask them if they have any marriage proposal packages that you can get. This entire event is very heavy on crowd participation so it would not even be out of the ordinary if the both of you were asked to do something. Chances are she will have no idea what is going on until you actually go down on one knee and ask her to marry you. Not only will you have the ambient effect in your favor, but a standing ovation from the entire arena as well. Now that is a great way to start off a nice life together! You do not always have to go so grand either. You can have a renaissance proposal without spending a hundred dollars. Search in your geographical location for anything that is celtic which also has that old feeling to it. There are celtic fairs that take place throughout the year that you can attend. There are also some celtic properties where people go to meditate, hike, or have a quiet afternoon reading a book. These types of places are great as they are outdoors and usually have extraordinary scenery or decorations. Proposing by the babbling brook or on the hilltop as the sun sets will give nice dramatic effects to the moment. So there are some ways to incorporate a medieval or renaissance theme into proposing to your girlfriend. Rest assured, if you take the time to just plan it out then things will go smoothly for you. I wish you the best of luck! Let us know how it works out! For more themed marriage proposals, ideas, stories, and tips on the big day please visit http://www.myproposalideas.com Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Barry_Davis http://EzineArticles.com/?Themed-Marriage-Proposals—Medieval&id=267083 commercial drivers license ambien ambien and price needed no prescription ambien to fl affect ambien side

One of The Main Reasons Why Relationships Fall Apart

Wednesday, February 27th, 2008

By Entjik Jeffrie I had the priviledge to try out a BMW M5 at a BMW dealership. It is one of the most refined race cars that is ever built. The interior is all leather, the V8 engine produces 398 horse power, navigation system, and wow, you gotta try it yourself. Enough said about the BMW M5, no matter how good the car is, or what ever the brand is, it can be Porsche, BMW, Ferrari, Lamborghini, and Maserati, or even Bentley. If you don’t take care of them, they will eventually breakdown. It costs at least $500 to $700 to change the oil in the Ferrari Enzo and $27,000 to change the break rotors. What’s the point of telling me all those stuff, well a good relationship costs something! It has the price to pay, if you want a good relationship to last, you must be willing to pay the price. You must be willing to nurture it and take care of it! Otherwise, like the exotic cars, if you don’t take care of them, they will eventually break and gone! Let’s talk about respect for a while, “Anything you don’t respect, it will run away from you!” Try not to respect your girlfriend or boyfriend, eventually he/she will run away from you. Respect is so important, if you have a nice & fast car, you gotta have some respect for the horsepower and speed. If you don’t have respect for the power of the car, speed can kill you. So “Respecting your friends, spouses, and boyfriend/girlfriends” is so important! You gotta change oil in your car and do regular maintenance. The same thing with relationship, at least give your boyfriend or girlfriend a gift once in a while, not once a year! Give him/her complement on how special they are to you. Remember “What you don’t respect, it will flee away from you” Copyright 2005, Entjik Jeffrie - Pebden.com, All Rights Reserved Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Entjik_Jeffrie http://EzineArticles.com/?One-of-The-Main-Reasons-Why-Relationships-Fall-Apart&id=55749 ambien and eye fatigue buy zolpidem on sale ambien doses lowest price ambien

The 8 Most Effective Weight Loss Secrets

Tuesday, February 26th, 2008

By Joe Rogers, Jr. The real key when you begin your weight loss program is coming upwith a balanced healthy meal plan. Be certain to plan ahead. The idea here is to set realistic and attainable goals for yourdiet program. Your planning will be essential to your success. Start by following the simple guidelines below. Nutritional and Healthy Meal Guidelines 1. Commit to consuming 4 - 6 small meals and snacks everyday. 2. For success, it is essential you plan ahead. Prepare your foodsthe night before. Always keep fresh produce and low-fat snacks nearby. 3. K.I.S.S. Keep it simple sexy. Begin by planning many meals withsmaller portions. If you get wrapped up in minute details, you’ll losefocus on the big picture: Long term healthy eating habits, attainableweight loss goals. 4. Eat slower. The first one done doesn’t get a prize. When you eatslower, you’re stomach gets a chance to fill up and metabolize. BR> 5. Select healthier foods like low fat meats, fish and skinlesspoultry, low-fat or nonfat dairy products,fresh produce like fruitsand vegetables. Also whole grain breads, cereals and beans. 6. Hi caloric foods are usually high in fat and must be avoided. Pretty much anything for sale in a Quicky Mart. Processed foods oranything in a wrapper usually carry ingredients like high fructose orcorn syrup and such. 7. Until someone comes up with the all Pop Tart Diet, foods thatare high in sugars such as pastries, candy bars, pies and candywill be completely off limits. 8. Consume a wide selection of fruits and vegetables in yourweight loss plan. Begin now by eating a total of five (5)fruit and vegetable servings every day. Here is a real good example of a healthy low fat meal plan (1517 calories). Breakfast Amount Item 12 ounces coffee-w/caffeine 1 cup Milk 1 tbps cream,fluid,half and half 1 pack Oatmeal-instant,maple,brn sugar Quaker AM Snack 1 cup Cottage cheese- 1%fat 0.5 cup Pineapple-canned, chunks Lunch 2 each bread whole wheat-slice 1 cubic” cheddar cheese .15 cup mayo 1 ounce turkey breast/white meat .25 small Tomato-small PM Snack 8 each Cracker/Nabisco-Low Saltines 1 ounce Turkey/white meat Dinner 5 ounces Halibut - broiled 1 cup rice-white cook steamed 2 tbps Thousand island-reduced cal. Kraft 0.5 cup Vegetables - mixed, frozen, boiled 1 small salad-sm. Garden w/tomato, onion 1 tsp Sugar-white 12 fl oz Tea-prepared w/tap water Good planning begins with a good shopping list. Print this out andtake it with you the next time you go to the store. Grocery List Food Quantity Apple - medium with peel 7 each Banana - medium 8 inch 7 each Bread whole wheat - slice 14 each Broccoli 7 spears Cheerios 10.5 cups Chicken Breast / White Meat 28 ounces Coffee- w/caffeine 84 ounces Cream, fluid, half and half 7 tablespoons Halibut - broiled 35 ounces Mayo type, reg., w/salt 1 cup Milk - 2 % fat 7 cups Orange - medium 7 each Sugar - white 14 tea spoons Rice - white 7 cups Thousand island (reduced cal) 7 table spoons Turkey Breast / White Meat 14 ounces Tea 82 ounces Once again planning ahead is essential to your successfully attainingyour weight loss goals. Preparing a good meal will be worth it. Joe Rogers, Jr. has lost 40 pounds and kept if off for over 5 years.Let him show you how by visiting locarbdietfitness.com/for more articles like this. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Joe_Rogers,_Jr. http://EzineArticles.com/?The-8-Most-Effective-Weight-Loss-Secrets&id=311961 ambien memory ambien and pregnancy generic ambien cheap ativan used as anticonvulsant

Fat, Trans Fat, Saturated Fat - What You Need To Know About Fat

Monday, February 25th, 2008

By Ian Robertson What is fat? Does it serve a purpose? If you ask many on the street , they would assuredly tell you that fat is “bad” and that they need to get rid of theirs. While one can certainly possess too much fat, it does play a vital role in our daily lives and is misunderstood to say the least. Both dietary fat and stored fat are necessary for survival, but it needs to be understood that dietary fat is certainly not the cause of excess stored fat. In chemical terms, fat can best be defined as any group of natural esters of glycerol and various fatty acids that are solid at room temperature. This description best applies for saturated fats, but unsaturated fats are fats too. However, they are essentially the same ester groups of glycerol, only they are liquid at room temperature. Fats play a large role that is often underplayed by those within the fitness community. Fat cannot be lived without. Fat serves as insulation for our internal organs. The heart, kidneys, and other organs are surrounded by adipose tissue which helps not only to protect them from injury, but to hold them in place as well. Fat is also vital for the breakdown of the vitamins A, K, D, and E. In summation, fat is truly important for daily functions, which is why are bodies need a bare minimum of 12% for women and 7% for men. It protects our organs, regulates body temperature, nourishes our skin and helps fortify our bones, without which we’d be most certainly be dead. Ian Robertson is an established personal trainer and nutrition advisor helping people lose weight at PhenForum.com, the online weight loss support group. See which foods contain healthy fats by visiting this page about fats we eat. Or, if you’re ready to take advantage of our weight loss expertise, click here to create your free account for instant support and motivation. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Ian_Robertson http://EzineArticles.com/?Fat,-Trans-Fat,-Saturated-Fat—What-You-Need-To-Know-About-Fat&id=382213 ambien shop ambien cr 25 mg ativan data ambien zolpidem boards online qoclick

The Way, The Truth, and The Life - Pt 2

Sunday, February 24th, 2008

By Anthony Smith The Truth. John 8:32 And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free. Truth is the conformity to fact or reality; exact accordance with that which is, or has been, or shall be. We are Sanctified by the truth of the Gospel, thru Faith in God and Christ. The Truth makes us free from our, inhibitions, witchcraft, sin and unrighteousness, phobias, superstitions and our fleshly desires. Giving knowledge for ignorance, wisdom for foolishness and understanding for misconception. The Truth makes us Children of the Most High, changing us from Physical to Spiritual, from Mortal to Immortal. Jesus came unto his own (Israel), and his own received him not, but the Gentiles were seeking God and Consumed Jesus and every word He would speak to them, The gentiles took Heaven by Force and Loved God. Pro 8:17 I love them that love me; and those that seek me early shall find me. John 18:38 Pilate saith unto him, What is truth? (Brns; Thousands ask the question in the same way. They have a fixed contempt for the Bible; they deride the instructions of religion; they are unwilling to investigate and to wait at the gates of wisdom; and hence, like Pilate, they remain ignorant of the great Source of truth, and die in darkness and in error. end Brns.) Many seek the truth in many ways. Jesus was and still is telling you the Truth, for the Truth Became Flesh and dwelt or lived among man. Seeking out those that would not only believe in Him but believe in The Father. For without believing God you cannot believe Jesus. For God is Christ and Christ is God. The Truth is they are both one within the other. Lets read a little truth from Scripture. Pro 8:14 Counsel is mine, and sound wisdom: I am understanding; I have strength. Truth is to hate evil: pride, and arrogance, the evil way, and the froward mouth, truth comes from understanding the will of God concerning His Son, the only Begotten of the Father. Webs; By understanding I mean that faculty whereby we are enabled to apprehend the objects of knowledge, generals or particulars, absent or present, and to judge of their truth or falsehood, good or evil. Isa 40:13-18; Who hath directed the Spirit of the LORD, or being his counsellor hath taught him?With whom took he counsel, and who instructed him, and taught him in the path of judgment, and taught him knowledge, and shewed to him the way of understanding?Behold, the nations are as a drop of a bucket, and are counted as the small dust of the balance: behold, he taketh up the isles as a very little thing. And Lebanon is not sufficient to burn, nor the beasts thereof sufficient for a burnt offering.All nations before him are as nothing; and they are counted to him less than nothing, and vanity.To whom then will ye liken God? or what likeness will ye compare unto him? Remember that Truth is the conformity to fact or reality; exact accordance with that which was, or is, or shall be. God is Holy and this is Truth. Wisdom is the Quickness of intellect; readiness of apprehension; dexterity in execution, wisdom is true religion; godliness; piety; the knowledge and fear of God, and sincere and uniform obedience to his commands. This is the wisdom which is from above. Psa 90. Job 28. Truth is judgment, counsel, execution, wisdom, obedience, knowledge, understanding, Truth is that God can Do, Act, Create, or Accomplish His pleasure at will, with thought and action, without the counsel of man nor spirit. Truth is sometimes hard to take, it , at times is hard to understand, meaning, Why this is happening or will happen, why this, why that. But I tell you of a truth, expresses the certification of the truth, these are not stories or parables, nor an example of a thing or action. Psa 25:5 Lead me in thy truth, and teach me: for thou art the God of my salvation; on thee do I wait all the day. the truth: Joh_1:14, Joh_1:17, Joh_8:32, Joh_15:1, Joh_18:37; Rom_15:8, Rom_15:9; 2Co_1:19, 2Co_1:20; Col_2:9, Col_2:17; 1Jo_1:8, 1Jo_5:6, 1Jo_5:20; Rev_1:5, Rev_3:7, Rev_3:14, Rev_19:11 Temple of Spirit & Truth MinistriesA.R.Smith Ministrieshttp://www.ourchurch.com/member/a/arsmithsermons/ Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Anthony_Smith http://EzineArticles.com/?The-Way,-The-Truth,-and-The-Life—Pt-2&id=246936 long term effects of ambien zolpidem ambien and side ambien buy cheap online get prescription for ambien online

Nokia 6280: Experience the Power of 3G Technology

Thursday, February 21st, 2008

By [http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Caitlin_Lucy]Caitlin Lucy Innovation is the buzz word in the world of mobile phones, as more and more sophisticated phones are hitting the mobile market every day. Making things more easier and convenient, the mobile phones are rapidly becoming our most reliable gadgets. Moreover, the advent of 3G technology has also brought many revolutionary changes in the way we communicate or we surf the Internet. Nokia, the world leader as a mobile manufacturer has always taken the initiative to bring all the latest features and technology at your fingertips in the most convenient way. Living up to the expectations, the Nokia introduced its another gizmo the Nokia 6280, which is packed up with substantial features. The Nokia 6280 is a slider phone and it does look somewhat enticing. All you got to do is to slide open the Nokia 6280 and thus reveals its intuitive keypad, which opens the world of unlimited possibilities. Endowed with the large and 262 colour screen, the Nokia 6280 can provide satisfactory viewing experience. Like various other Nokia phones, the Nokia 6280 is also loaded with an inbuilt 2.0 mega-pixel camera, which is also assisted by its 8x digital zoom. Thus, you can click to grab all those defined moments with the help of the Nokia 6280. To make the photography more easier, the Nokia 6280 comes with push button and you do not need to go through the keypad. You can also share all these photographs with your loved ones, by sending the MMS. Undoubtedly, advent of the 3G technology has completely changed our way of communication, as you can see the face of the person to whom you are talking with the help of video calling. A VGA camera is fitted on the other side of the phone, which is used for video calling. Moreover, you can also have business conferencing over the phone. To add basic music features has become essential for all the mobile phone manufacturers, as more and more music phones are coming in the mobile market every day. Thus, to stay ahead, the Nokia 6280 is also loaded with an inbuilt music player, visual radio and stereo FM radio. Moreover, its substantial memory space also allows you to download various music tracks. You can also personalise your [http://www.3mobileshop.co.uk/showphone.asp?id=243]Nokia 6280 with wallpapers and screen savers to get that personal feel. Caitlin Lucy is a Expert Author. She has written good quality articles on [http://www.3mobileshop.co.uk/]Buy Mobile phones and [http://www.3mobileshop.co.uk/simfreephone.asp]sim free phones. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Caitlin_Lucy http://EzineArticles.com/?Nokia-6280:-Experience-the-Power-of-3G-Technology&id=421933 buy phentermine with a mastercard phentermine without prescription phentermine 37.5 90 no prescription cheap phentermine online consultation

Lose Weight Without Drugs

Monday, February 18th, 2008

By Danny Brown Take one tablet in the morning and one tablet in the afternoon with a full glass of water. This routine will help you to lose up to twenty pounds. Need some proof? Try this! The high quantity of Green tea extract found in Mega-T Green tea helps curb your appetite. The ingratiates in Green tea act as a natural appetite suppressant. Taking Mega-T green Tea in the morning and afternoon will help control your hunger pains. It will keep you from getting up in the night to raid the refrigerator. No binge, no bulge. The chromium in Mega-T Green Tea aids the body in reducing fats and increasing your metabolism. This speeds up the fat burning process. Mega-T Green Tea contains the herb Garcinia Cambogia. This is another ingredient that helps control your appetite. The Garcina Cambogia tells you your stomach is full, thus keeping you from overeating. This will allow you to eat smaller portions of food, which means less food intake, and less fats being stored by the body. Some people worry that eating fewer calories will result in lower energy levels. They believe the energy loss will lessen their need to exercise, thus causing weight gain. Well, guess what? Mega-T Green Tea contains Guarana, a know energy booster. You will get the energy you need for exercise and calorie burning from the guarana. In addition, Mega-T Green Tea contains Siberian Ginseng, a stamina booster. This extra fuel source helps increase energy you need for your workout routines. Working out causes your body to sweat. The more you sweat the more pounds you lose. Using a diuretic will increase this fluid loss. Mega-T Green Tea contains Bladderwack, Fo Ti, and Gotu Kola which all have diuretic properties. These diuretics help induce sweating, causing your body to lose excess water. Have you ever felt bloated from drinking too much water? Mega-T Green Tea will help reduce extra water and those extra pounds. Plus youll feel better. There are 300 mg of green tea leaf extract in Mega-T Green Tea. Mega-T Green Tea will help you lose weight and improve your health. Each box comes with a diet plan, to help with your diet program. If you want to read more about green tea diets, Visit Danny Brown’s site at www.GreenTeaDietSite.com Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Danny_Brown http://EzineArticles.com/?Lose-Weight-Without-Drugs&id=381640 doctor’s pharmacy phentermine buy phentermine pharmacy phentermine union pharmacy buy phentermine hydrochloride

Working with an Intuitive Counselor: Opening the Door to Yourself

Saturday, February 16th, 2008

By Jaelin K. Reece Oh, Ive had a psychic reading before. They read some cards and wanted to know when my birthday was and then told me Id meet a man in the next 6 months, but I never did. Ive heard this from clients before. The difference is that after working with an Intuitive Counselor, they see that intuition, psychic ability and energy awareness is for so much more. An Intuitive Counselor can open you to the things that are happening in your life right in the present moment, and then uncover core issues. A good intuitive counselor goes right into that core and assists you in creating transformation from within, to ripple outward, affecting all the smaller symptoms. This reverberation creates healing on all levels simultaneously. We are all multidimensional beings functioning emotionally, mentally, physically, spiritually and energetically all the time. We dont live in just one aspect, so how can our life be based on just one action or one piece of psychic forecasting? Intuitive counseling is a process of making simple changes and small course adjustments in the way you perceive yourself and your role in this life. For example, if you perceive yourself as a victim who allows yourself to be controlled and manipulated all in the guise that you are the people-pleaser, then you will attract people to you in your life that will reflect that belief and meet that need within you (i.e. controller, manipulator, taker, etc). If on the other hand, you perceive yourself as a self-empowered person who really knows their wants, desires and role here, then you will attract people to you that will support that vision. How does the victim become the self-empowered one? The change happens by taking steps to perceive themselves in a different light. It involves awareness and focus on the self. Working with an Intuitive Counselor, you receive the tools (exercises, awareness, etc) and the ongoing support while you make the changes within. Simply going for a psychic reading you may receive helpful information at the time, but without the tools, the support and the guidance to make a difference in your life circumstances. Many people looking for Intuitive Counseling are searching for themselves. They are looking for answers to questions they dont even know how to ask. Mostly they know they want their life to be different, they want to feel better- they want to be happy. Happiness doesnt come from taking a pill, drinking a potion or reading the cards. Its all a matter of using the information gained to take the actions to make actual changes in your life. Sitting back and waiting for the Universe to hand a better life to you on a silver platter may not be your best answer. The Universe helps those who help themselves. Action is required on your part. If you truly want something good, you work to get it. In the case of happiness, it may mean letting go of old patterns and emotions youve been carrying around that no longer serve you. It may mean opening yourself to receive new, good things into your life. It may also mean changing how you respond to others and the way they treat you. Ultimately, it is about standing up inside yourself and saying, I really want to feel better about myself and about my life. Working with an Intuitive Counselor means making a commitment to yourself and to your future self. Who do you want to be 5 years from now? If you want life to remain the same, so be it. But, if you would like to make a difference and create change, consider Intuitive Counseling. Youd be working with someone who can feel where you are and help you see your way through to the outcome you choose. Its a powerful and fulfilling process that provides you with the support and guidance needed to make deep and lasting changes. 2005 Jaelin K. Reece Jaelin K. Reece, is a whole life coach, intuitive and guide. Jaelin uses her complementary skills as a gifted intuitive to facilitate people in realizing their true potential in their personal lives, relationships, career, and prosperity. She assists people in transforming their lives and creating the life they love to live. Jaelin serves as a mentor, consultant and success partner for her clients. She is also the featured columnist Ask a Life Coach for About.com Holistic Healing. If you are interested in partnering with Jaelin as your mentor and life coach you may arrange a session with her through her website: Jaelin K. Reece, Life Coach or by visiting her blog Intuitive Innovations Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Jaelin_K._Reece http://EzineArticles.com/?Working-with-an-Intuitive-Counselor:-Opening-the-Door-to-Yourself&id=51065 phentermine 37.5 online consultation order cheap phentermine direct pharmacy phentermine online pharmacies for phentermine

Mail Order’s Most Common Mistakes

Friday, February 15th, 2008

By DeAnna Spencer THE GREAT MAIL ORDER MYTH There are a number of totally unrealistic beliefs about the mail order business. To belive in any of them can be dangerous to your pocketbook. Here are some of the most common ones: 1. It is possible to make vast amounts of money in a short period of time under the following conditions: a. No experience b. Little or no investment c. Insignificant work effort If this were a multiple choice test, then A, B, and C, would be FALSE– FALSE AND FALSE AGAIN It does take experience, and knowledge, which can be acquired through reading, observing, and doing… There are many good books as well as some bad ones, on the mail order business. Stay away from books that make unreasonable promises. Our Special Report Series is designed to give you factual information on a specific subject. Universities and colleges across the country give courses in mail order and direct mail. You can learn a great deal by observing companies that have been around for some time and are successful. Read their ads, study their offers and promotional literature. Some of the most effective direct mail offers are written by professional writers who are employed by large companies and who will not have a job unless they write successful and effective material. So, the next time you throw away a piece of mail from American Express or the Book of the Month Club, look at it and study it carefully. The mail order business, like any business, requires an investment. It may be smaller, in many cases, than a business which requires a store front.. In most cases, mail order entrepreneurs launch their businesses from their homes. The amount of the investment is largely determined by the magnitude of the entrepreneur’s effort. A part-time mail order business can be gotten off the ground for less than a thousand dollars… The belief however, that a business, any business, can be started for $50 or $100 is totally false. I might add, it can be very profitable to those who make their living telling people it can be done. of course, they are usually the ones that want, and often get, the only $50 they say it takes to start the business. And now we get to the really good part–little or no work. In some peoples’ minds, it goes something like this: Put in a few hours here and there, easy work, just stuff some envelopes, run a few ads; and wow, the money will be pouring into the mail box! Anyone who belives that probably also believes they are going to win a few million dollars in the lottery. The odds are not very far apart. Building a business, mail order or any other, is hard work. It takes great perseverance, belief in your efforts and lots of work. 2. Many people belive that they can get lucky in this business. Don’t believe it for a minute. It is the greatest mail order myth of them all. To belive it is fatal. Look at this business in the same way you once looked at your job anytime you first began to learn a new skill. It took time to acquire those skills and this is no different. It will take time and also effort. 3. Finding the one book or product that thousands or even millions will buy. Well, it is obviously possible since it has been done, however, your chances of coming up with another Pet Rock or Rubik’s Cube are highly unlikely. It is equally unlikely that you will discover the one book that will be bought by hundreds of thousands. But your chances of becoming a success in this business and making a lot of money are excellent, if you adhere to the rules and principles of the business. 4. Running a small ad in a national magazine and getting hundreds or even thousands of orders. 5. Renting a mailing list of 1,000 names and getting 150 to 200 orders. A very good list will generally produce no more than 2% to 3%, 20 to 30 orders for 1000 names. Your own list may do much better. There are a few of the most common beliefs about the mail order business that are almost always totally false. PRODUCT CHOICE The first task any new entrant into this business has to deal with is to determine what product to sell and to whom he will sell it. This is a considerable task and it should not be taken lightly. Many serious errors are committed in this area.. To become well informed in this area, it is necessary to read various publications that cater to those people to whom you wish to sell your products. Read the news content and study the ads. Send in for free information on those ads that are close to the products that you select have an ongoing demand so your customers will want to buy from you again and again. During this early stage of your mail order career, it is of utmost importance to control your enthusiasm. If you don’t, you will get drawn into the SHOTGUN APPROACH. In this scenario, you will be so enthusiastic and impatient that you will make a number of rapid moves such as the following: You will buy one or more distributorships; choose one or more products that you know little about (it amazes me beyond belief that people make marketing decisions about products they have not seen–this is simply insane): run one or more of the publications; or rent a mailing list and have no idea how the names on that list were accumulated. Needless to say, you can spend a thousand dollars or more in a hurry and you may get little or no results from your efforts. And what is even worse, you will probably become discouraged and get out of the business before you had a chance to understand it at all. When choosing a product, take care in considering all aspects associated with the marketing of it. The most important considerations are: demand and repeat demand Cost and mark-up potential Shipping or dropshipping arrangements Reliability of your major suppliers Product storage in case you decide to do your own shipping Cost of shipping The most important consideration in choosing a product or line of products is your belief that this product represents a service or need to your potential customer. The product or products must also have related products that can be sold to your customer at a later time.. Each product you sell should be marketed with the aim of selling additional products. This is why, in general,, selling just one product is so very difficult and selling a line of products via a catalog for example, is so effective. The more items you can sell each customer, and the more repeat sales you can generate, the more money you will make. THE PROMOTIONAL OFFER Once you have chosen your product, set the price, decide who your supplier is going to be and how it will be shipped, you begin to put together the marketing material.. This is more crucial in our business than in any other business and it is also precisely the reason why a percentage of the population will not buy by mail—because they cannot see, smell or fell the product until they have paid for it. The most common mistake committed in this area is to duplicate exactly what another enterprise is doing. One of the big problems with this approach is, since there is so much plagiarism going on in this business, you may be copying someone who is just as new in this business as you are and who is also copying someone else’s idea. It is OK to copy what others are successfully doing example, many companies in the information product line will provide their dealers or distributors with ready-made promotional material. In most cases, this is the least expensive way to get started and, if you are dealing with a reputable and successful company, you will be promoting products that have been proven successful. It is recommended however, that you use this approach only until you get your feet wet. Then you should begin to develop your own material. Once you have a better understanding of what sells and who is buying it and why, develop your own brochure, circular, etc. You can still utilize the material of others as an addition or follow-up to your material. Developing your own material is not at all difficult and can be done professionally and effectively on a rather small budget. A good promotional offer consists of several important components which include: The circular or brochure, or catalog. A brochure or catalog does not have to be a 40 page instrument but can be as few as 4 pages An effective sales letter The ordering instrument–this may be a built-in order form, separate order form, etc. Return envelope Of the above, the development of the brochure, circular or catalog, is the most expensive so here is where you will most likely use something that is supplied to you by your supplier.. A hard hitting sales letter is as important as the brochure. You have generally three options in tackling this project: 1. You can copy one from someone else. Since an exact copy may be illegal, you should probably use elements of the letter and make some changes but the end result generally leaves much to be desired. 2. You can pay someone to write one for you. This can be very expensive and may still bring about less than desirable results. The biggest problem here is that the writer of your sales letter will generally not understand your product as well as you do. 3. Do it the right way, the hard way. Do it yourself. There are many good publications on effective letter writing for direct marketing and you should read one or more of them. Keep in mind that no one will understand your product as well as you do.. To do a good job, it is a definite requirement that you believe in the product and believe that it has one or more important benefits to the buyer. Just having the desire to sell the product, so it will make money for you,, will not cut it as a rule.. Once you understand the basic components that need to be in every sales letter, you should be able to write one.. A little practice may be necessary. You will become more proficient with each new product. An order form should be user friendly. Your customer should be able to read the instructions with ease. If your brochure, circular, etc. has a built-in order form, it is generally a good idea to enclose a separate order form.. This way the customer can keep the original offer intact. Enclosing a return envelope is strongly suggested. The idea is to make it as easy as possible for your potential buyer to part with his money and send it to you without too many hurdles. The biggest sins are committed under this topic of The Promotional Offer and, since the promotional offer is the only thing your customer sees before deciding if he will buy from you or toss you in the nearest trash can, you must do things right,, there are absolutely no exceptions. If you are sloppy here, if you try to save a few bucks, you are cheating yourself, not your customers. Keep in mind he is an expect at rejecting offers since he had many years experience. the average American is presented with approximately 6,000 plus offers to buy something per week–TV, radio, newspapers, magazines, road signs and, last but not least direct mail.. Or, putting it into more personal terms, YOUR OFFER. So sweat over this one SO YOU WON’T GET TOSSED. The money which is wasted annually in this country on substandard direct mail would make a substantial dent in our country’s national deficit. Every week I see dozens of offers come across my desk that could make me weep.. Such garbage! Return envelopes with crooked rubber stamp imprint, sales letters with spelling errors, grammatical errors, etc., so called brochures which were apparently copied by a 20 year old copying machine.., circulars that look extremely unprofessional because the order from section has obviously been changed by a typewriter and they arrive all by their lonely selves, no sales letter, no return envelop.. God it is awful! The authors of this garbage are screaming to the world: “i am an amateur, I am an amateur, I have no idea what I am doing but I want your money. You’d better belive and not forget that this country is made up of 240 million of the most sophisticated buyers to be found anywhere on this globe. Yet, this is also the area where you can shine and excel beyond your wildest dreams.. Modern technology has given us the tools to produce marketing material that can make you look as good as some of the largest and most successful companies in this country. And you can do it right out of your home. You will find professionals who can help you in this endeavor. Right in your own city there are desktop publishers, graphic designers, and word processing services that are eager to help you. You could get a 4 page brochure designed for as little as approximately $100, in most markets, plus printing. The brochure can look just as good as the brochure of a million dollar company. Therefore, you must do things right. The average buyer will look at your piece for less than 8 seconds to decide whether to junk it or study it. MARKETING YOUR PRODUCT VIA ADVERTISING Most new mail order entrepreneurs will sell their products through advertising once they know what they will sell and have developed their promotional offer. Since display advertising is generally quite expensive, it is best to start out with classified ads in monthly national publications. Classified ads, as well as small display ads, should only be used to get inquiries from promotional buyers. The inquiries are sent the promotional material you have developed and a percentage of them are converted into buyers. This percentage generally will range from between 6-12%. If you want to sell something directly from an ad, the item should cost less than $4. There is not enough space in a small ad like that to convince a buyer to spend $10 or $20. For that reason, you see full page ads selling products in that price range. The first task is to choose the right magazine. One of the most effective ways to find the right magazine is to choose one that carries ads by successful companies that sell products similar to yours… The wrong magazine is generally the one whose content attracts readers who are not at all interested in the product you are selling. Choosing the right classification in the publication is as important as choosing the right magazine.. Again follow the leaders. Since there are thousands of magazines catering to almost every possible interest group, the possibilities of finding new opportunities to market your products are unlimited. I suggest, however, that in the beginning you stick with well known magazines and leave your experimentations for later when you are better established. Monthly publications are generally more cost effective than weekly magazines, and certainly, daily papers. You can get inquiries from a national publication, such as Popular Mechanics, for months and sometimes well over a year. A daily paper, on the other hand,, will rarely produce an inquiry beyond 2-3 weeks after it was published. A common advertising mistake is to choose inexpensive advertising such as in shoppers papers, mail order trade journals, etc. It is not how much the ad costs but how much each inquiry costs you… If you ad costs $100 and you receive 100 inquiries, each one has a direct cost to you of $1. Early in mail order career I spent a lot of money for a $10 ad here and a $20 ad there. I soon learned that sometimes I would only get one or two inquiries for my $10. Expensive! To test a product and promotional offer it is sufficient to run the ad just once.. The magazines and advertising agencies will often tell you that to test an ad you must run it 3 or more times. I say no. Not until you know how the first one pulls. You will need some patience for this endeavor since most monthly publications have a lead of two or three months.. But its is much better to wait a little while than to spend hundreds of dollars without getting needed results. To write successful ads also takes practice and work.. Once again,, follow the leaders. A successful ad can often pull two, and sometime three, times as many inquiries as an ineffective one. MARKETING YOUR PRODUCT VIA MAILING LISTS. This approach is often preferred by the newcomer. Unfortunately, it is also generally the least effective way. It is preferred by many because it is perceived to be easy. And if it worked it would be. Millions of dollars are made by companies in renting the wrong names and stale names to new mail order entrepreneurs.. Both sides lose. The company renting the names will not get any repeat business and the customer often goes out of the business if his efforts are futile. The most unfortunate mistake newcomer make here is to assume one list as good as the next one. The inexperienced mail order operators should start out advertising, and as they gain experience, begin to use mailing lists in addition to their advertising. But, if you absolutely cannot resist, at least be very picky in choosing your lists. Deal with a reputable broker or smaller mail order company that you know advertisers frequently. Find out how the names were generated. What did the ad that brought the inquiry sell? If you are trying to sell books on how to start a new business and end up with the names of people who answered an ad about how to find a better job or learn a new hobby, you will have wasted your money. Likewise if names are older than 6 months, preferably no more than 3 months, you will get too many returns and people may not be interested in the same subjects anymore. Mailing lists especially your own, can be highly successful, but only if you have gained enough experience to make wise selections. The preceding pages have attempted to cover some of most important areas you should be aware of as you start out in this exciting business. Although the emphasis in the preceding pages has been largely on the negative, I belive strongly that this business has immense potential and rewards for anyone who has the interest and dedication to learn it. If you do your homework and make deliberate moves based on your personal knowledge and experience and you expand with each success, the potential for your ultimate success is almost unlimited. Don’t forget that unlike your friendly neighborhood retail store which sells only to a confined geographical market, you can market your product to over 260 Million people in the U,S, and Canada. So remember before you can earn you must learn! Note to editors: To show my appreciation to the editors that use my articles, I offer a free solo ad. 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